I can't wait to hear your story, Q. I totally understand about not feeling comfortable sharing...I think all the years I spent as a youth group leader, having to talk kids through some bad situations, and just basically learning to be honest through that about what I've been through was a serious help to me. But everyone has their own comfort level and their own time in which they're comfortable sharing. If you ever do want to talk, you can always pm me at livejournal, or msg me here once I get an account (they say they're giving all of us who signed up before a certain date accounts next week), or email me at indiegoddess at gmail dot com, or screen a comment on my LJ. I am a safe person to talk to, and our DMs on twitter tell me we've been through some common experiences (I hope that wasn't saying too much that you didn't want shared - if it is, tell me and I'll delete this comment). Anyway, I am so glad to know you and I can't wait to meet you IRL - preferably at a DMB show, yes?